Relationship is a structure, and love is unstructured. So love relates, certainly, but never becomes a relationship. Love is a moment-to-moment process. Remember it. Love is a state of your being, not a relationship. There are loving people and there are unloving people. Unloving people pretend to be loving through the relationship. Loving people need not have any relationship \u2013 love is enough.<\/p>\n
“Be a loving person rather than in a love relationship \u2013 because relationships happen one day and disappear another day. They are flowers; in the morning they bloom, by the evening they are gone.<\/p>\n
“You be a loving person.<\/p>\n
“But people find it very difficult to be a loving person, so they create a relationship \u2013 and befool that way that “Now I am a loving person because I am in a relationship.” And the relationship may be just one of monopoly, possessiveness, exclusiveness.<\/p>\n
Relationship may be just out of fear, may not have anything to do with love. Relationship may be just a kind of security \u2013 financial or something else. The relationship is needed only because love is not there. Relationship is a substitute.<\/p>\n
Become alert! Relationship destroys love, destroys the very possibility of its birth.<\/p>\n
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Relationship is a structure, and love is unstructured. So love relates, certainly, but never becomes a relationship. Love is a moment-to-moment process. Remember it. Love is a state of your being, not a relationship. There are loving people and there are unloving people. Unloving people pretend to be loving through the relationship. Loving people need… <\/p>\n