Live-In Relationship in India

A woman choosing to live with her boyfriend without getting married, particularly with the consent of her mother, is still an uncommon occurrence in many conventional Indian families.

This interesting case comes from the National Capital Territory of Delhi, where a young woman chose to continue a long-term relationship with her colleague without entering into a formal marriage.

What makes this case particularly intriguing is that her mother not only knew about the relationship but also gave her consent to the couple living together.

So, the obvious question arises:

Why a live-in relationship instead of a sacramental marriage?

According to Relationship Counselor and Astrologer Siddhartha Goell, the answer can be explored through the planetary combinations in her horoscope.

The horoscope shows a strong interaction between the houses connected with self, love affairs, relationships, secrecy, family, unconventional behavior and bedroom matters. These combinations collectively provide an astrological explanation for her unusual relationship pattern.

Beginning of Live-in Relationship

The woman developed an intimate relationship with a colleague at her workplace. After spending sufficient time together, both became confident about the stability of their long-term relationship.

She eventually confided in her mother.

The mother was a wealthy widow, while the boyfriend came from a comparatively modest family background. The mother apparently had concerns about the legal implications of marriage and the possibility that a husband could acquire rights or claims connected with property inherited by her daughter.

Rather than insisting upon marriage, she chose another approach.

She gave her daughter permission to continue the relationship and even gifted her an apartment where the couple could live together.

From the mother’s perspective, this arrangement provided her daughter with financial and residential security while keeping the inherited property under her daughter’s ownership.

The couple subsequently continued living together.

The mother later passed away unexpectedly, but her death did not change the relationship equation.

This brings us to the central astrological question:

Why did the Delhi woman remain in a live-in relationship instead of formalizing it through marriage?

Rashi Chart Analysis

1. Taurus Ascendant and the Role of Venus

The Taurus sign rises in the Ascendant.

Its lord, Venus, is positioned in the Ascendant along with the Sun, lord of the fourth house, and Mercury, lord of the second and fifth houses.

This creates an important connection between:

– 1st house: Self and personality

– 2nd house: Immediate family and family values

– 4th house: Mother, home and domestic happiness

– 5th house: Love affairs and romantic involvement

The Ascendant lord Venus connecting with the lords of these houses indicates that matters concerning family, home, love and personal relationships become significant themes in the woman’s life.

The presence of the fifth lord Mercury with Venus is particularly important from the perspective of a love relationship.

2. Venus and Mercury: Planetary War and Retrogression

Venus and Mercury are in close conjunction and are involved in planetary war.

Both planets are also retrograde.

This makes their results more complicated and unpredictable, particularly in matters connected with relationships and marriage.

Both Venus and Mercury have an influence upon the seventh house, the principal house of marriage and relationship partners.

At the same time, Mercury is the fifth lord, connecting romantic love with the relationship axis.

Thus, the horoscope provides a strong indication of a relationship developing from love and personal choice rather than through a conventional arranged-marriage framework.

Why an Unconventional Relationship?

1. Mars, Rahu and the Relationship Axis

Mars is the seventh and twelfth lord and is associated with the shadowy planet Rahu.

Mars influences the fourth, fifth and first houses and their respective Lords.

The association of Mars with Rahu becomes particularly significant.

In Vedic astrology, Rahu is associated with unconventionality, breaking established patterns and moving beyond traditional boundaries.

Since Mars represents the relationship partner and is connected with Rahu, this combination can manifest as a relationship that does not necessarily conform to conventional social expectations.

This provides one astrological explanation for the woman’s decision to cohabit with her partner without formal marriage.

2. Saturn in the Eighth House

The depositor of Mars is Saturn, which is positioned in the eighth house.

Saturn aspects Mars as well as the second and fifth houses.

Furthermore, Saturn receives the aspect of Jupiter, the lord of its sign, positioned in the twelfth house.

The eighth house is an important house when examining hidden, private and complicated dimensions of relationships.

Saturn is also retrograde, while its Nakshatra lord is Ketu, which itself receives the influence of Jupiter and Mars.

The repeated interaction between Saturn, Mars, Rahu and Ketu creates a pattern that can be interpreted as a relationship operating outside conventional social structures.

The woman therefore continue to live with her companion in a relationship resembling marriage in practical terms, while deliberately avoiding the formal institution of marriage.

The Twelfth House of Horoscope and Private Relationship Matters

The twelfth house is traditionally associated with privacy, bedroom matters, intimacy and life away from public visibility.

In this horoscope, the eighth lord Jupiter is connected with the third lord Moon, that denotes mental inclination.

The twelfth house is also connected with Mars, whose role has already been discussed.

The combination of the eighth, twelfth, fifth and seventh houses therefore becomes relevant when analyzing the woman’s intimate relationship and her decision to maintain a relationship outside the traditional framework of marriage.

How Did Her Mother Give Consent for Live-in Relationship?

This is perhaps the most fascinating aspect of the case.

In Vedic astrology, the fourth house, fourth lord and Moon are important significators when examining the mother.

In this horoscope, the fourth-house indications are connected with Mars, Rahu and Jupiter.

The same planets that contribute to the unconventional nature of the woman’s relationship are therefore also connected with the mother’s role.

This provides an astrological indication of why the mother could take an unconventional stand and support her daughter’s decision rather than forcing her into a traditional marriage.

The mother’s decision appears particularly significant because her mindset is influenced by an apparently unconventional social environment therefore nevertheless supported her daughter’s choice.

Confirmation from the Navamsha Chart

The Navamsha (D9) chart provides additional insight into marriage and relationship patterns.

1. Aquarius Navamsha Ascendant

The Navamsha Ascendant is Aquarius, ruled by Saturn.

When the Rashi Ascendant is ruled by Venus and the Navamsha Ascendant is ruled by Saturn, the combination becomes significant in understanding the native’s approach toward relationships, sensuality and personal desires.

The Navamsha Ascendant lord Saturn is positioned in a Venusian sign and is associated with Rahu.

Saturn also has a connection with the fourth house and influences the Ascendant.

Additionally, Saturn has lordship over the twelfth house, again bringing the twelfth-house themes into the relationship analysis.

2. Venus in the Eighth House

The depositor of Saturn is Venus, which is positioned in the eighth house along with the seventh and eighth lords.

These planets are also in mutual aspect with Mars, the third lord.

The repeated association of Venus with Mars, Saturn, Rahu and Mercury becomes significant in understanding the native’s approach toward romantic and intimate relationships.

Rather than looking at any single planetary combination in isolation, the overall pattern of the horoscope needs to be considered.

One of the most important principles in horoscope analysis is the repetition of a particular theme.
In this case, there is repeated involvement of the:

– 1st house – self and personal choice

– 5th house – love and romantic relationships

– 7th house – partner and marriage

– 8th house – private and complicated aspects of relationships

– 9th house – traditions, beliefs and established principles

– 12th house – privacy, intimacy and bedroom matters

When these houses and their respective lords repeatedly interact across the Rashi and Navamsha charts, the relationship pattern becomes considerably more pronounced.

The Role of the Ninth House in Horoscope

The ninth house has an important connection with tradition, social principles, beliefs, rituals and established norms.

Affliction or unconventional planetary influences involving the ninth house or its lord manifest as a tendency to question or move away from established traditions.

This does not necessarily mean breaking the law.

Rather, the individual may simply choose not to follow certain conventional social or religious practices.

In this case, one such conventional practice is the expectation that a couple living together should formalize their relationship through marriage.

The horoscope suggests a tendency to follow one’s personal relationship choices rather than automatically conforming to established social expectations.

This case demonstrates how complex relationship patterns can emerge from the interaction of several planetary factors rather than from one isolated combination.

Birth Details — For Astrological Research Only

The following birth details are being shared strictly and exclusively for the purpose of astrological research and analysis.

Date of Birth: 12 June 1988

Time of Birth: 03:56 Hours (03:59 AM)

Place of Birth: DELHI, INDIA

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